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writes: My Bestest Best friend recently broke up with her steady 6 month bf after he told her "things just aren't working out" Obviously, she moped and droped fro a bit but eventually got over it and now they are reasonably civil friends (reasonably, they both bitch about eachother a bit) but the thing is my friend is now starting to chat up MY bf who, great guy that is, finds it very hard to ignore. He the sort of boy who like...unitentially flirts? Yeah like he just does it out of habit. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm fine with his flirting becuse he never really means it and it extremly loyal and loving to me. Howether, my best friend is a gourgeous,intelligent man-eating flirt and with me being an extremly relaxed, cool, open person I'm worried she's taking advantage of my disability to tell her I'm unhappy with what she's doing and my bfs disability to stop himself flirting. I want her to be happy, but frankly, not with my bf. What should i do? thanks alot -x-
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): Thanks guys!
I talked to my friend and she has dropped it, even got herself a new bf! I talked to my boy aswell and he honestly said just what i thought "flirting? Am i really? omg i'm really really sorry!" and now we're as strong as ever. :) thankyous to all :)
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reader, Little girl x +, writes (8 October 2006):
 Hiya,
same thing happened with me a month ago.
Shes very insecure, and think sthat beacuse she has come out of a realtionship the one way to get over it is to get straight back in it..
Dont take it personally but she is jelous of the realtionship which she once had that you now have.
Take deep breaths, talk to your boyfriend.
I make mine very aware - infact ignore him- haha.
And talk to her aswel xx
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reader, love crazy +, writes (8 October 2006):
u need to talk to ur partner and how her flirting with him makes u uncomftorble. and u need to talk to ur friend and let her know that is looks like to u that she is being too flirty with ur man. and if she is any kind of friend she will be ok with ur little chit chat and back off. and yes do it before its to late. it doesnt take long to start having feeling for someone else. and ur loyal man sounds like he will he will always be loyal, but its to ease ur mind right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): Shes not trying to pinch your Boyfriend when you get dumped it plays havoic with your self esteam and she is trying to gain back her self worth and feel attractive It sounds like its has noting to do with him hes just a man.
But like you say shes flirting at your expence which is not fair. The only thing I can advise is that you take the high road and dont tell your boyfriend how you feel or he'll just think your jelous which is not a good message to show to your man because it makes him and her look cool and you look like the jelous girlfriend. If your going to tell mate how you feel pick the right moment to tell her that she cant do this anymore convise her that she'll find a nice guy and that and that guys fancy her and tell her when men are giving her the eye when your out with her and she'll feel great and will leave your man alone!
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):
You need to stop this now before its too late, i know you trust your bf but whatever you do dont leave the 2 of them together for two long! Speak to your friend first and tell her that although she has split up with her bf that her behaviour is upsetting you. And then talk to your bf and say how much you love him and how getting too close to your friend is hurting you.
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