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writes:I'm 18 and I'll be 19 later on this year. I thinnk I have a serious problem. I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed or even had sex. For some reason I'm never attracted to the guys who want me. I like older dangerous men and I can't figure out how to attract them or if I even want to. What I mean by dangerous is that they have to have that mean streak. You know, not afraid to fight, likes to argue, doesn't exactly take no for an answer and loves completely. Someone who might grab me too tightly sometimes. What's wrong with me. An the thing is that who I want to so specific that it shocks me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): Thanks Llindy87,
I took some time to really look at my wanting for this type of guy and it seems that I just want a guy who will protect me from any and everything and who'll never let me go. Who will love me purely. I guess I'm just looking for someone strong and powerful and brave. :D I figured it out. There is more to it than this but I don't want to share the rest. Thank you.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (18 May 2010):
 19 is not too young to be a virgin, keep your virginity as long as possible...I wish I did.
anyway, it sounds like you know you're type and it does sound dangerous but there is a rush in danger, but make sure you're safe. Maybe find out why you are attracted to danger boys and then perhaps you can be able to do something about it. Was your dad a bit dangerous? Freud said our attractions usually have something to do with our daddies. weird, but maybe he's right.
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reader, sesantek  +, writes (18 May 2010):
Nothing is wrong with you. It is all about your mimdset. Find time to get it off your mind. The right man will come with time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): 19 is not too late at all... i started off at 26. just make sure you go with people who care for you and hurt you physically/mentally. i can guarantee you will have lots of males for you in life. you are just starting off. relax!
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