A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have been dating this great guy for 10 months now. He is everything I have always dreamed for in a man. when I met him last year he was so busy with coaching hockey and playing hockey and of course playing basbeall in the summer time. He told me then that he is not going to coach this year so he will have more time to spend with me. well september is here and not only he is coaching( in his words, part time which is not true,he does it almost every single night when he is not playing hockey), he plays in 2 hockey teams and for the first time in his life he has decided to play fall baseball!! so you get the point..no time for me!We are planning to move in together in Nov and I am just not sure what to do!!I have changed my life style a bit since I have met him but it looks like that he has not changed anything for me.I love him playing sports but I think there should always be a balance in anybodies life.I have talked to him about it and he freaks out everytime and tells me that we are moving in together so we are going to see eachother everyday and that should be enough( he is counting coming home at 12 at night and going to bed as spending time with eachother).He thinks that I am putting him in a cage and want to change him and not letting him breath by asking to slow down on his hobbies.I am a very active person as well but I think you have to balance that with your relationship so you can spend some Quality time with eachother.Am I wrong? should I just leave him?should I still move out with him as he is the greatest guy I have ever met and do my own thing? please help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): You already know the answer here. How much time will he have for you after you move in????? Seems like you are the one making all the changes. If this guy was really so great and loving some of those changes would have came from him. Sounds like he thinks his life is more important than yours and to be honest you don't want a relationship like that.
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