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writes: I have been friends with this guy for nearly 2 years and have fancied him for the most part. At New Years, we both got drunk, he came on to me and we shared a kiss (he has not had a relationship at all really, and rarely talks to girls)That night he asked what this kiss meant, view to a future? Just a laugh? I laughed it off at the time. He gave me his number. I saw him the next day with our circle of friends who are not particularly lenient with making fun about these situations. He was acting weird so later I texted him, asking what was going on and telling him how I felt. He said we were just friends and it was a mistake. Why would you do that to a friend? He said he didn’t realise I liked him (but everone else around him did). Since then we have gone back to normal friends, but he flirts with me when we go to the pub. And is always trying to get on my nerves to produce a reaction from me. He’s like a school boy. When we get together we talk so much it’s like there’s no one else there. I have tried to stop liking him but until he changes or I do I can’t see this happening. He has a really attractive personality,I can’t help it. Advice please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2005): Tricky!Why not try being a bit mean to him for a while? You should be annoyed with him because of what he's done, and he needs to start being a man and facing up to the consequences of his actions!Next time you're with your mates in the pub, make an effort to talk to other people more than him. If he should ask you what's up, tell him the truth and let him deal with it (but perhaps "later" not in front of everyone!). Let him know that he confused you, and that you don't think it was a nice thing to do.You will waste you precious time, and your heart by carrying on liking him for another 2 years...or more...really. I've been there. he sounds just like someone I knew who was too scared to form a relationship with any girl - even if he did really like her.
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