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writes: I wrote in last week about a Spanish guy I met on holiday 2 weeks ago. He gave me his number and was deciding to ring him or not as he doesn't talk much English, so I plucked up courage and rang him.I spoke to his friend as he could talk more English. Well he wants me to come back and stay with him. I thought it best to book into a hotel, just in case things don't work out. He knows when I'm coming but thought I would phone last night to double check it all, but couldn't get through as his voice mail answering machine kept coming on his mobile.Now I'm getting thoughts in my head he doesn't want me to come after all. Am I just being paranoid? Got to go now as the ticket is booked.
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reader, Dearpaula +, writes (31 May 2006):
 hi there. Do you think that it is love with this spanish guy? Keep trying to call him. Personally I would be a little scared to go out there on my own. I would take someone with me. Im not saying that anything is going to happen to you but it would be good to share the experience ups and downs with a good friend. If you feel brave then go out there and take your chance. But please let us know what happens. I hope it all works out and you have a great time. Just as the previous answer states, make sure people know where you are and if your instinct says that it doesnt feel right then go home. Listen to your instinct, its usually right. What would you do if he was coming to see you? Would you make sure you had the phone to hand? Would you call him back? You would be excited that he was coming right?
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reader, Smiler +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Hey sweetie
well i didn't see your first question but as for this one well, the situation does seem a little suspect in my opinion the fact that he knows your coming but wasn't available to talk on the telephone to confirm details etc, my advice would be go out there anyway as your ticket is booked already if you meet him you meet him if not all you have lost is your air fair go out there and like i say if you meet him all well and good have a great time but if you don't still go out enjoy the break and who knows you may meet someone else then you'll have lost nothing so sweetie you only live once enjoy it! but p.s do this safelybe sure that your family and friends know exactly where your staying phone numbers etc... contact them on your arrival and during your hols so everyone knows your safe and sound ok.
I hope my advise helped you a little, let me know how you get on ok. Good Luck
You Take Care Sweetie X
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