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writes: hi i am an 18 year old girl and i have met this guy off the internet the thing is i am really interested in him but i dont think he is in me we r meeting up on tuesday, so i was wondering how should i act around him. he is also bringing his mum along so that my mum can get to know her a bit better. please help me i dont know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2006): Er... the whole mum thing is hella weird.
I say it is always best to be who you are.
Relax and remember your conversations and go with that as a guide to small talk.
Be polite and considerate and thoughtful in your responses.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2006): You seem much to worried if you are going to impress him! What about him impressing you? I think you just need to relax and think this through clearly, hun. You have 'feelings are just feelings ' and that will get you in trouble. Attach some clarity and rationale to those feelings. You are meeting him for the first time in real life. I think he does like you, if he's willing to do this and bring his Mother along! I would say to you, just to be totally yourself. You want him to get the true picture of who you really are, not some fake persona just to impress him. People see through the fakery very quickly and quite often that's a turn off. So don't worry, smile and have fun, making a new friend. Because that is what this is right now...a friendship..nothing more. And, don't put all your eggs in one basket here...keep your emotional boundries up and your wits about you and really get to know him well, before deciding if this is the guy for you. But for goodness sakes don't worry about 'love and attachment' this early in the game. Women do that...men quite often-don't. Good luck hun and don't worry.
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