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writes: HI, i'm a married 23year old with two kids. Ever since i had my kids i can't seem to orgasm or get excited with my husband. I love making love with my hubby but i just don't get aroused, also sex seems a little boring and by the time we go to bed for the evening i can't be bothered with sex and feel as though i have no energy.RegardsXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): I can understand how you feel, i had two small kids at the age of 24, so i do understand. You must make some time without the kids, and just be with your man. Get the inlaws to have them, maybe for a weekend. You don't have to go away. Stay at home and enjoy each other. If a whole weekend is out of the question then get a babysitter for one night per week. That is your night. Go out on a date. Have a meal out. Dress up for him (if you want), some nice underwear. Woo each other. You will get your libido back. It is a thing that does go for a time when you have kids, but it does return and wow when it does - enjoy it and each other.
Two small kids ruin love life and sap your energy but you have to make time for it.
Take care and i hope things improve.
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