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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been married for 18 years, have 3 teenagers and I don't feel the spark for my husband anymore. I feel bad because he deserves so much more. He's hard working a good father and provider. Does not have any bad habits and gives me tons of attention!I feel stuck and my interest in other men has been increasing. I am struggling. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009): It sounds to me like you've just became bored with you life in general. It's easy to do when you've been married that long. Try to spend some time away as a couple. Try to do some new things together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): So what if you feel you are interested in other men. but before you take that comment too far, you need to have an honest conversation with your husband. you are man and wife and are devoted to eachother till' death do you part. maybe not death, but until it's over. here are some obvious questions but are helpful in a relationship. 1. are you still interested in me?2. do you find me attractive?3. would you ever cheat on me?4. are you still devoted to this marriage?5. and, although i said "are you still interested in me" this one is important. do you still love me?ask these questions. if he answers yes to every questions except #3, you should try harder to devote yourself to him and give yourself special treats to attract you and him. you might find yourself falling in love all over again.
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