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female
age
36-40,
*nconnue
writes:Hello,I am in a middle of a love triangle with two long distanced relationships. I am a 22 year old virgin and have never been kissed. I never let the chance to a guy to get to close to me. I had 5 serious relationships so far and in most of them, I have never been too close to a guy. We will either live in 2 different cities or state or countries so that I can deal with a direct contact. I don't mind preserving my virginity until I am married coming from a strong christian family background but every time I date a guy, one of the recurring questions is how was your first time? ...and the conversation goes ...I don't know if I can't wait that long with you.I am pretty good looking, and can charm lots of guys with my smile; I can't go out without a guy asking me for my phone or contacts. However, when I get into a serious relationship, I get very involved and when I don't hear from the guy for a while, I decide to move on.Well, to get down to the topic, my current boyfriend (that I met online) has been with me for more than 1.5 years, has proposed too. However, due to many financial issues he has, stopped contacting me. So my best friend introduced me to her husband's best friend and we've hooked since then. Both relationships are long distanced and I have not met the guys in reality (direct contact).So I want to move on, don't know how to break the news to my boyfriend and I don't want to get involve in any other long distance relationship and do not know how to tell it to the other guy who said had a crush on me for the first time he met me and heard my voice. Also, my best friends told me he is already thinking that I am the one and planning a trip for the two of us over the summer break around the world.How will I tell this new guy that I have never gone out with a guy for an entire day and night, and that I need a break, and I am still seing someone else?How do I deal with all that?? Please help!!
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reader, missyrenee +, writes (8 December 2008):
If your current boyfriend has stopped contacting you...I don't see a problem. Go have fun! You're 22 and have many years left to figure out if the right one is standing before you :)
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