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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Ok. I am a 42 year old female who is married to a wonderful man and we have 3 beautiful kids and a granddaughter. I have been married for 20 years now. When I was back in high school, I dated a guy of a different race, he is black, I am white. My parents found out and flipped, threatening to even kill me. (they were and still are very racist) We ended up splitting over all the drama my parents brought, and he moved on with another woman who he married and now has 3 children of his own. All our children are grown now, and we are both still in touch and still deeply in love. Recently we spent a weekend together, and found out that our feelings have never changed. I feel my family has kept me from being with the love of my life. We want to be together, but I dont want to destroy my husband, he is a good man. I dont care what my family thinks, I am not that scared little girl anymore. I can't stop thinking about it, and want nothing but to run to him and be with him the rest of my life. He wants the same thing. I'm so confused, I dont know what to do about this! Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): Dear Old lady,
who is grand ma also now. I would strongly not expected this question here. Forget what you are thinking. First of all you are cheating on your Kids, your DH and every one around. Same way is your Ex.
If you do leave all at this age, what you will loose all that you have now. your kids's way towards life and women will change. Your son will be ashamed of his mother.
i do not think you should even asking a question here..you know the answer.
if you want to maek your life miserable till your death, do it, else forget him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): I would think long and hard about what you are doing. You have worked very hard to get what u have now ie wonderful husband and 3 kids. If u leave you could break up your family, lots of pain for your husband and children regardless of their age. It may seem greener on the other side but u r gambling so much and will most likely find out u made the biggest mistake of your life going to this man. What if he doesn't leave his family, how do u know living with him will be? You need a reality check and not let your fantasies get the best of you. Think long and hard what you will be giving up before u do this.
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