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Love or friendship

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Question - (1 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well I have a big problem my very good friend is dating A guy I really like. I know it won't last because they have gone out many times before and he dumped her because she won't touch or speak to him in school. He has asked me out before but I never said yes because he has had a bad reputation for dating alot of girls but lately this past year he has had a complete overhall. He doesn't know how I feel but I know that he likes me I can feel it. We have so much in common and I don't live very far away but she does I like him so much but I don't want lose her friendship. Though I know if I don't do something soon I will go mad. I love him so much and it hurts to see how she talks about him when they are so obviously the most miss matched couple I need help. I love him and I just don't know what to do. Should I leave it and let my heart break or do something and loose a close friendship?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008):

If he keeps going back to your friend there must be some reason. Don't be the one responsible for breaking them up. Guys come and go but a good friend is hard to find and worth her value in gold.

This guy has a bad track record too, so even if you are just thinking of yourself, he could be bad news for you.

Why not have a good long think about what you want from a relationship, maybe make a list and then see if he matches it. I bet he won't. So you can look out for someone else - there will be lots of opportunities.

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