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writes: I am extremely happy with my boyfriend, I would never want to break up with him. We get on great. Everyone else thinks we are a match made in heaven. There is only one problem; I find it hard to be turned on by him. I have no major interest in having sex with him, much to his disappointment and frustration. I know it is not a question of low libido as I have had other very physical relationships in the past. I am attracted to him, but there seems to be something missing. I am very down about it because I love him so much, but cannot seem to get aroused with him. I would not like to break up with him, but can we survive this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2006): how long have you two been together? because the longer you've been a couple, the more normal it is for you to have less sex. either way, if you're not physically attracted to him, are you sure you're in love with him? because as i'm sure you know, there's a big difference between loving him and being "in love" with him. you may be extremely attached to him emotionally, and he may be your best friend, etc, but if you don't find yourself attracted to him, i challenge you to re-evaluate your feelings for him. because it's hard to imagine being in love with someone, but not being physically turned on by them. the best of luck to you.
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