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writes:What are you supposed to do when you've fallen in love with someone you've never "officialy" met? I'm a shy person, i never act on my feelings, and it always ends up eating me up inside... i don't want to be like that anymore, i want to change. I was at an aftergame party with one of my friends, and there was this guy there i thought was really cute. I told my friend and she told me she knew him, and she could talk to him for me. I told her no, because that'd be weird. But i did ask her a few things about him and found out he is a total sweetheart. His favorite movie is my fave, our fave food is the same, he has a great smile, he's smart, he's going somewhere in life. It was pretty much love at first sight. Since then me and my "best friend" have gone over some rough patches, and were not as close as we once were. We never talk anymore, which is sad, but beside the point. I never did find out where the guy lived, or how i could get in contact with him... but i want to. I've never felt this way about anyone before. All he has to do is look at me and i'm all butterflies and rainbows like when i had my first real crush. He makes me blush just by looking at me, he makes me giddy...I don't think it's obsession, just a crush, but something i'd like to act on... don't know how though. I havn't dated much because most guys my age are immature and have one track minds (sex,sex,sex) but this guy is different.. and i want to go about getting him right.How can i get his phone number/email address, what do i say?.. HELP PLEASE!!!
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (26 January 2007):
 A faint heart never won a fair maiden. In your case the roles are reversed. LOL. You need to lose the shyness and just talk to him. Pretend he is your cousin or brother or someone you already know. If you can approach him with confidence, he will be putty in your hands.
Try to be his friend first. The rest can come later.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): I think calling it 'Love at first sight' is a bit extreme. It isnt love. It just sounds like every other crush that people have.
Try talking to him, In the past I have had a crush on all types of different girls, and i've found that I end up being disappointed when i've actually talked to them or gone out with them, as they did not live up to my expectations of what I thought they would be like. So try not to let your imagination run riot too much until you do get to know him.
On that note, get to know him, talk to him. A party is the best time to get talking to new people, just try to talk to him like a friend, and see how it goes. I know its easier said then done but you shouldnt fear rejection, because all you'll be doing is talking to him, nothing more. Then you can see how it goes..
Good luck, I hope it works out for you :-)
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