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writes: I have just started to have strong feelings for a guy, james, who i'm already really good friends with. It has been quite flirtatious and i'm keen for it to go further. Unfortunately, his best friend rick (also a good friend of mine, in fact we often all 3 hang out together) took me out on a date recently, which i went on without realising it wasnt just another of our 'friend' jaunts, and that he actually liked me!! it was a bit embarassing but there's an unspoken agreement not to speak about it, especially as his feelings are not returned. what can i do? i really like james but how can i possibly deal with the rut i've got into with rick? also, i dont want the two boys to fall out over this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): Break the unspoken rule and tell him you didn't realize that he liked you and that you do not return those feelings as you have them for the other mate.
Then tell the other mate how you feel.
Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2006): if u fall in love so fast is not love, is lust. My advice would be that u make up ur mind about who do u know the best or the longest, who would u like to die for (if that would be ur case(just an xsample))and who would u really like to spend more time with. I've learned that most people put false identities to know people, and when u know them for a longer time they change into someone u mite not like.
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