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anonymous
writes:I'm only 20 so not worried about this exactly, just eager. I understand an orgasm isn't often a part of sex for the female. Having read plenty of complaints like this, I'm not looking for reassurance that I'm not 'broken', just looking for a few tips on how to speed it up. I masturbate and even own a rampant rabbit but I can't even bring myself to orgasm, so how can I expect to help a guy do it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2012): I was in your age bracket when I had my first orgasm. I wasn't even trying, just rubbing myself against the guy. We both had our underwear on. I was on top so I was relaxed and in control, I guess.
Since then they have always been so easy to be honest. But clitoral stimulation is what does it for me. If your rabbit has a vibrator thing on it, use that on your clitoris and forget about the dildo bit. Otherwise get a vibrator and just relax, play around, use your fingers too. You'll get there.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (19 November 2012):
 so is the only way you have tried is with your rabbit...
they are useless to me.
in fact anything that's internal is useless to me.
I need direct and firm clitoral stimulation.
thinks like a pocket rocket trained on my clitoris.
a hand held shower massage on pulse...
or my fingers.
a man with a good tongue and patience can work wonders too.
so now the issue is can you get close? have you tried without the rabbit?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2012): Have you come close to an orgasm? What happens when you do come close, do you get scared and freeze?Or maybe it's that you're not turned on that much before you begin? I can make myself come in 20 seconds if I am very horny, however if I am tired and just try it for the sake of it It can take a hell of a long time and sometimes I don't at all.You need to find something that really gets you going. Just a hint, female friendly porn is great, much more erotic then normal porn and great for getting tips!
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