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writes: Hi.I'm curently in a long distance reletionship I love my bf but he lives 45 minutes away. I don't want to leave him and i hope it dosent come to that but im afraid I'm going to lose him because we only see each other for like a week or weekend out of a month and he says he'll pay for gas to get me to come up but then i would have to stay at my brother house and hes not goign to really spend any time with them but hes me only ride there and the only place I can stay. My parents wont let me stay at his house. I'm afraid that this isn't going to last long but I love him and I hate being so far from him he's older than me and can move out but he still need to get a job and stuff so he will have the money to do that. I don't know what to do I don't know when I can see him again. sooo what do I do now??
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell he knows my brothers and hes meting my mom and dad on saturday but my brother is and ass and hes not going to let me spend any time with my bf
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): I always thought long distance meant much further than that. Why not stay at your brother's house? Part of getting to know someone is them meeting your family. You could give it a try and see couldn't you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): I'd see if staying with your brother works. Also give it time and one of you will be able to drive. Maybe when you're 16 your parents will let you stay over. If all else fails then maybe it's time to move on. I personally believe that long distances generally don't work out, but if he's less than an hour away and there is somewhere you can stay then it might work.
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