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writes:MOD NOTE: OP's own title.A year ago i moved overseas to the united kingdom. About 4 months after arriving i met my current boyfriend, whom i have been in a serious relationship with for the past 5 months. I love him more than anything, and even just spending one night away from him is hard. He said he loves me more than anything and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. We are in our mid-20s. Next month i will be leaving him to visit my family back home for a whole month. We will be apart for a WHOLE month. Its still 4 whole weeks away but everytime i think about being away from him for so long i start crying and panicking and i get really really sad and depressed. I havent seen my family in a year, so seeing them again will be absoultely amazing, but the thought of being without the love of my life for a whole MONTH is killing me.How do i look past the time we are going to spend apart and start looking forward to seeing my family? I know we will go on skype almost every day and send letters and stuff, but it is going to be one of the hardest experiences of my life! What are some affirmatives, or great quotes, or just any advice anyone can give me on being away from someone you love more than anything for a prolonged amount of time!?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Agreed with Anon..I am an army wife is well and in October I will be going without my husband for a year. God forbid anything happens to him. You have only been in a relationship for 5 months and have spent every waking minute together...sounds like you have separation anxiety. Time spent apart will do you some good, if I spent every waking minute with my husband I would probably want to kill him. It's only 30 days, you will live.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): Get a skype account. Its one month. My husband is in afghanistan, and has been since january. he gets his two week leave in november. if i can go eight months, I think you can handle one.whenever you think you miss him, think about how there's someone else who doesn't have the luxury of knowing they get to see their loved one again.
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