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writes: I need to know if this happens to you girls and if you still stay with him. First of all I'm 17 and he's 16 but he will be 17 in April and we have been dating for almost 2 months. Sometimes I miss my him soooo much and sometimes I don't want him to leave but then other times, mostly when he stays the night, I get annoyed by stupid lil things like he always makes this short *mm* noise. I know a lot of people do it but ugh! I don't know if he knows he does it because he has Tourette's and his feet show his bones because I think he needs to gain weight. I know feet aren't supposed to be pretty and attractive especially guys but yeah, and the way he moves his head sometimes after he talks. Maybe some of it has to do with because I'm used to dating older guys and even though he's not that much younger, it bothers me. In the beginning of our relationship I had mixed feelings but they went away until we started saying I love you. Then I got them again sometimes so we stopped saying that until I mean it. Sometimes I think I do and sometimes I don't. Today when he was here I could have cried thinking about leaving him but I can't help it because of these feelings. I don't know what's wrong with me. I would love to have those feelings for him and be with him forever because he's one of those very few sweet guys. Please help me out! You always help me. Thanks!
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reader, candyshopp +, writes (13 August 2006):
 everyone has little things about ppl that bug them, even though they love them dearly......theres little things about my bf that bug me too, but i just try to ignore them because i know i love him, and thats all that really matters
if ur having mixed emotions just sit down one day and think about ur feelings for him, if u really love him....then tell him that and stay with him, if u dont really love him, then maybe break up with him, if ur still undecided after thinking bout it, then just dont think about the things that bug you, and think about the good things!
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