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LDR: Too soon to move?

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Question - (25 November 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *inkkitty23 writes:

So I'm crazy about this guy, he definitely caught me off guard and now I'm head over heels for him. We've been dating 5 months known each other for 6; We met at work and we've been through some rough spots (job loss and rehab) and we came out better and stronger in the end. Unfortunately he wasn't able to land on his feet after losing his job and my living situation didn't allow me to take him in so he was forced to move 4-5 hours away. Our LDR is very fresh and new and I miss him. We touched on moving to another state together in a few months but I don't think it would be smart to have him uproot again and start again. I'm financially secure and able to relocate my job(s) where ever and when ever I so desire so to me it wouldn't be a big deal and I've been wanting to move. He told me he loved me before he left and we both want to make this work. I'm just not sure if I should wait a few months then mention it or mention it when I see him next?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (26 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntIf it is the way that you feel well then there is no point keeping your feelings to yourself. The next time you see him just explain to him the way that you are feeling and see if the both of you can come to some sort of arrangement. Good luck.

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