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Lack of sex is causing problems. Why is she like this?

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Question - (14 June 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi there,

Im 15 living a normal life but I have a problem.There is this girl I know a year older then me who is very sexy and adores me.But she sort of has a boyfriend.She says all these things how I make her really happy and she's in love with me(I don't think she knows what love really is)and she want's to be with me.So why doesn't she break up with her BF,she spends more time with me then.I think im losing my love for her.But I think the main reason why im feeling different for her is because she doesn't want to sleep with me.We've had forplay(we like to try new things)but why won't she just have actual sex?Do you think it is right to think like this because she doesn't want to have sex.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

Lol thanks supermum for the note you left me,don't worry im not going to ignore it..thanksxx

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A female reader, supermum United Kingdom +, writes (14 June 2008):

supermum agony auntfirstly you need to tread really carefully.... what you are doing with her is cheating and that makes it wrong. talk to this girl, because she must have feelings for him if she is going out with him....

find your self someone who is available.

PS i know you wont listen to this, but you are not meant to be having sex at your age... and f you do, for heavens sake you a condom

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

Maybe just maybe, she isn't ready for sex yet or maybe it's cause she already has a b/f and dosen't want to be sleeping with two people (causes thats slutty you know!) She's not in love with you, if she was she would have dumped her b/f by now. Dont be one of those pathetic people

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

She is playing with you, Anon. Rid yourself of her. She isn't going to give you sex. She probably isn't giving the other dude any either. He may have a driver's license and more spending money,...but he is just as frustrated as you are. I would bet on it. But then, if you like the "fore-play", go ahead and play and get more frustrated. Like being an idiot? Some guys don't seem to mind. Just be aware of what you are and blame no-one but yourself.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

Well try to talk to her about this and see why she won't have sex.No it's not wrong to think like this,well okay maybe a little.

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