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writes: Hi I've had a lot of trust issues and once I finally put some trust in someone (my boyfriend of a year) he goes behind my back and talks to his ex when he's the one who promised me he wouldn't. He recently lost his job and I found out he'd call her too from work so I don't know if once he gets a job again, if he's going to do that again. He told me he wouldn't but It's so hard to just not worry about it. I love him with all of my heart and I'd never want to lose him.
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reader, catmeow06 +, writes (7 November 2006):
ok here the thing, i have trust issus my-self, but you can't dread on every move he makes. if hes doing something wrong by talking to her or hanging out with her, then be worried and say something. if you have told him more than once about not talking to her then he has no respent for you. i believe that respect and trust and open communitcation is exstremly imprortant in a relationship. talk to him about it. see why he doesn't want to call you up and wants to call her up. ask if theres something going on or if there just friends. it all depends on how close they were in there relationship and how long they went out for. maybe they just want to be friends.remember if there no trust in a realationship, then there really isn't a realtioship worth fighting for. i know what your going through. just give him a chance. also when asking him, ask him in a gentle settle way, nothing that will make him deffensive. let him know how you feel about it.
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