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Jekyl and Hyde, nice to me when friends arent there, horrid when they are!

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Question - (9 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

what does it mean when a guy talks about you and make fun of you to his friends when your not around. but when his friends are not around he is the nicest guy ever. this guy used to like you and you just recently started returning the feelings. you kno within your heart a relationship is doomed to fail cause he is a player but it still makes your mind wonder. y do guys do that y wud u make fun of someone u like? and act so differently when they arent around.

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A male reader, burningredphoen United States +, writes (11 December 2009):

burningredphoen agony auntIt would be different if he didn't mention you around his friends and avoided you when with his friends...fact that he makes fun of you with his friends supports what satin and I to believe as truth.

I can see how a guy might hang out with you when his friends aren't around,..and then when his friends around he'll have nothing to do with you because he might feel his friends are going to make fun of him...the key here thoug is to see who makes fun of u....if one of his friends is always starting it and he just agrees with them then he might just be doing that to fit in....if he's the one bringing u up then ignore him....if its not him bringing u up then try get closer to him, but don't give him sex or anything sexual in case he is trying to take advantage....see if you can pull him away from his friends and get him interested in you...also ...if he has your number and doesn't call you then he probably isn't interested

Chances are he's just an ass...

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A male reader, burningredphoen United States +, writes (11 December 2009):

burningredphoen agony auntActually ....it means he doesn't like you but wants to get in your pants...he knows you like him so he's nice around you until he can have his way then he'll tell his friends "hey I just went to bed with her haha"

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