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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I am a 25 year old female who has never had a boyfriend and who I suppose if I'm honest I'm a bit uptight when it comes to opposite sex due to my upbringing. I have fallen for this guy at work who seems interested in me but I don't think he wants a relationship, he is the Navy and he has a bit of a rep but my friend said I should just go for it, just for the experience. My problem is because I have never went near the opposite sex I am terrified incase he can tell and tells everyone. Failing doing anything with him, I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on how to feel comfortable and what to do. Is there any where you can go to get some help.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 March 2009):
If he has a bit of a reputation that means he has told people about other girls and he will tell people about you. He may tell people you were amazing in bed but do you really want anything out there about you?
I'm a bit of a lady about these things and don't like people knowing that kind of information about me.
There is nowhere to get help on this, it's just called life I'm afraid.
Just get out there and get to know new people, people not in your work place, and you'll meet someone who you can experience it all with you and not tell everyone you know.
Good Luck!! xx
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