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writes:Im 16 and recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We have had sex 3 times now and each time is less painful- it only hurts at the beginning. The only thing is that i dont really like it. I like the fact that we are close and together, but when we try out different positions it just feels uncomfortable- and just like i need the toilet- DESPERATLY! If i put my legs over his shoulders, aparently this is meant to feel better for both of us, but for me the odd feeling of needing the toilet but not actually needing it just gets stronger. My friend says this happens to her every time she has sex and i just hope that this needing a wee feeling is not the "amazing" thing sex is about- if so what a let down... i have had orgasms before from when my bf fingers me, but having sex is just odd, and uncomfortable. Is this just what sex feels like and i should accept all the hype is a bit of an exaggeration. It seems sex is so much more for men, but then i have only had it 3 times, could someone tell me if this is all?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2006): I have had exactly the same problem, no matter what i try it still feels uncomfortable and kinda numb. Iv been havin sex for 3 months now, and its still not getting any better. I love my boyfriend to bits but i really believe i react better to cliteral stimulation that penetrative. Maybe you are the same
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2006): Hi, firstly, have you talked to your BF about this? This ISNT what good sex feels like. Maybe he needs to move differently or you need to try different possitions. Make sure you talk to him bad sex isnt fun, secondly make sure you definately have feelings for him still, it may be that there is just no passion. and finally if you have done these things and nothing helps, maybe you guys should stick to other forms of non-penetrative sex, maybe you just arent someone who enjoys full sex.
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