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writes:i have been using butt plugs for fun during sex and on my own for over four years now. Recently I have started using larger and larger ones as I haven't been satisfyed with the regular ones I used to use. I get a buzz from using bigger and bigger ones to see if i can get them in and how it feels. Sometimes I can't get them all in but really want to keep pushing and trying to get it in, like an addiction. I am worried that I will cause long term damage or my anus won't return to is normal size if I keep doint this. Will it be ok to keep doing this or how can I stop? Any advice on how I can stop the urge to do this would be appreciated? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): I would suggest trying to only use them with another person and avoid using them on your own. This way it may limit the amount, and quite probably the size that you use them. I have personally used a number of 'toys' up my anus over a long period and not found any major problems. However, if you use one too large and for too long then you will probably end up with some slackness for some time. I would suggest using panty liners in your pants for a few hours until your muscles tighten again. Hope this is of help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): You might want to invest in some adult diapers....
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reader, Variety +, writes (5 April 2008):
 I guess you just have to get rid of them if you want to stop doing it. This won't stop the urge but it might encourage you to look for new things. Or put them out of reach so it is more effort to get to them. If I were you I would look at different sex toys on the internet (to use alone and during sex) and you may find something you enjoy using even more. I'm not sure but maybe if you got sex toys to use elsewhere then you could leave your anus for now which would not only reduce the risk of stretching it but also would make using things like plugs more enjoyable because it will be more sensitive. xxx
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (5 April 2008):
 I think its more to do with how long they are kept in but if it is a particularly large one and is being kept in for a while on a regular basis, then yes you probably will cause muscle strain and stretch your anus. if you wanna stop then its best to go cold turkey! Like any addiction you just have to get past the initial bit then it gets easier. So if you feel the urge to use butt plugs try to resist it. There are plenty of other things that will give you pleasure so experiment in other areas and find something else that satisfies you and after a while the urge to use butt plugs will have faded.
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