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writes: Hi,There is a girl that I work with that I have fallen head over heels for. Problem is she's already getting married. What can I do that will help me to stop wanting her as more then my friend. I can't get her out of my mind because she is so wonderful, but I know there is nothing I can do with her beyond our friendship. It makes it really hard to see her everyday when I feel like this. Thank you all in advance.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 April 2008):
Your easiest option is to get a new job. Work your way up the career ladder a step. Apply for new better and more senior jobs. Or go travelling for a while.
I might say that women who are more attractive simply because they have nothing to lose and nothing to hide. I'll happily chat to any man with confidence because I know I have absolutely no feelings for them. I see them in the same way as women now because the only one I see in that way is my husband.
If she was single she would probably not have got as close to you as she has. She wouldn't want to lead you on. But because she knows you know she is taken she feels safe with you.
Get out more, chat to new girls, make new friends.
You will get over her if you stop idolising her.
Good Luck!! xx
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