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writes: I went to prom with my friend's brother RJ.Before prom we hungout quite a bit we played strip ping pong and poker. The relationship started really fast and was a lot of fun. We aren't friends. We don't call eachother to talk. Only to make plans. Since prom we haven't really done anything. He has an ex who he just got back with and now more than ever I want to hangout with him. I know that their relationship has been really bad in the past but I don't want to be the reason they break up this time. I think if I called and wanted to play ping pong (it's like our inside joke) he would do it. That fact makes it really hard not to call him. I guess we are friends with benefits. I don't know if liking another guy would solve this. I've never had a relationship like this.Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Makes it kind of hard to keep ones eye on the ball, doesn't it. Wish I had thought of that years ago. Puts the man at a disadvantage, as things get interesting for him much faster.
I guess it would be best to allow he and his ex to work things out if they want too. It sounds like that is what he wants to do at this point. I don't think that you should push a relationship with him right now. Just think of your prom date as a fun experience. If he contacts you in the future and wants to see you, then do so if you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Strip ping-pong? Blimey, I bet that's interesting - from both your points of view!! I must be getting old - I would never have thought of that when I was younger.
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