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writes:I have been in a up and down marriage for about 5 years. We have 2 young children. We have tried counseling, only has helped some. Over the 5 years, I have had 3 one-night stands due to a lack of physicalness from my partner. I have not told her...Im trully remorseful and beat myself up daily about. I want to work it out...what do you recommend I do? Help!
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (5 August 2008):
 If you felt that bad why did you do it twice more after the first time. Think long and hard about your marriage, if you want to make it work then you have to put some effort in too. Dont expect your wife to want sex all the time if you are not connecting in other ways. Talk to her x
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (5 August 2008):
 this is such a common problem in marraige. The truth is if you want more sex from your wife, you need to give her the emotional connection she craves. How can she be intimate with you when you're mind is always thinking about where to get your next piece of ass.
Personallly, I don't think you are remorseful. If you are, you would stop cheating on her and focus on your marraige.
If you don't love her anymore, then end the marraige so you are free to do what you want. Either case, she doesn't deserve to be cheated on while she is busy raising your two young children.
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reader, brown sugar +, writes (5 August 2008):
 I was cheated on and found out from one of his family members and that hurt so you may need to find the nerve to be honest with your wife if you want to save your marriage and be ready to answer all her questions because she will probably doubt your love from now own but i am sure you can gain her trust if there is true love and you want to change good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): I think you should come clean. The relationship will never be normal if this is hanging over your head! You're a full grown man in a committed relationship... You must face the consequences of your actions, I'm afraid. Stop running from them and start owning up, it's the responsible thing to do.
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