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writes: hi. basically ive been with my boyfriend 2 years now, he has never cheated and neither have i but for some stupid reason i have become very insecure that he will. also i just cant seem to stop nagging him! I love him so much, and just want some advice really on how to keep things fresh and to keep hold of him.
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reader, Tilly1983 +, writes (8 May 2006):
 I have had a similar experience and in the end my paranoia got the better of the relationship and he left me. If you think you have a lasting relationship then relax and go with the flow. enjoy it asd much as you can and dont worry so much
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reader, bonym  +, writes (8 May 2006):
 In order to make this relationship last you have to abolish all feelings from your head that he is gonna cheat otherwise you will push him away with your jealousy. And what way to do that is so start believing in yourself, i.e believe that is he is with such a wonderful, gorgeous girl such as yourself, why on earth will he want to cheat? Good luck xXx
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reader, Honest +, writes (8 May 2006):
The best option to take is to talk. Sounds simple but I understand that its not that easy! Go our for a meal, or a walk just the two of you and tell him how you feel. Don't give him the PG13 version either, tell him honestly.
There must be something cuasing you to nagg him, maybe he's doing something that's annoying you, or maybe your stressed with you work load.
It really is good to talk.
Honest
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2006): me and my bf have been together 4 almost a year and i got like that so instead of nagging him i told him that i needed to take a little break from the relationship(to test if he would wonder a stray)and he didn't so try this and see if it works for you.
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