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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hiya I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 years this past few months though I have got the feeling he's getting bored with our relationship He's started adding women he finds attractive on Facebook that's how we met by the way we used to go to school together and every weekend he goes to his mates to get stoned I hardly see him through the week we live together but he's always doing something like taking his dog out or in his shed he needs to go somewhere he never asks me he asks his mate straight away I have tried talking to him about this but nothing changes what do I do thank you
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 March 2017):
 It sounds to me like he is treating you as a flat mate. You have spoke to him and he has not changed, he is adding random women for attention and he doesn't seem to mind hurting you. I think I would end the relationship as it sounds like it has ran its course.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 March 2017):
 If you feel neclegted and unhappy WHY stay with him?
You hav brought the issue up and NOTHING has changed so WHY waste your time on somthing you hope for but that probably will never happen?
A partner who rather spend his weekends getting stoned than spend time with his GF? And you are still there?
Who place are you living at? His? Yours? One you found together?
If it's his or one you found together, LOOK for a place of your own and when you have one, end it and move out.
If it's yours, end it, give him 2 weeks to find another place.
It seems like he is not only taking you for granted, you are also the maid? The one who cooks and cleans?
You are in your 30's, not your 90's so it's NOT too late for you to find someone who WANTS to be with you, spend time with you SHARE his life with you.
I think you already know that the relationship is over and the two, if you are just going through the motions of pretending there, is still ANYTHING worth staying together for.
The ONLY one who can make YOUR life into something you want is YOU - but NOT by "trying" to change the man you are with. You two are a not a great fit. Time to move on.
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