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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend age 23 has started a new job and i've found out (by snooping through his phone bill and phone) that he is texting someone from his work who is 12 years older than him on a daily basis. They are texting when i'm not about - what do you think about this? I can't get reading the texts as they are being deleted. What should i do - i really don't want to say i've been snooping? Please help. I don't think even if friends that its right to be in touch daily??
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): When your relationship reaches the stage where you have to go through your partners phone bills or inbox it is already almost certainly over; you just haven't realised that yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): OMG! You completly DO NOT trust your BF? For all you know it could just be business or a really close friend that he has NO feelings for. Have his reactions towards you changed? Does he still look u in the eyes at night??
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (18 December 2006):
 The point you have to come clean about is the snooping. Tell him what you have found and take it from there. As fro the dishonest sim card stuff, don't bother. You are just opening a whole new can of worms not to say you will be being as dishoest as you tink he might be being. And IF he is innocent and this is just a friendship how will you feel then?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): get yourself a new sim card stick it in your phone and text the number but pretend your a bloke if she text back take it from there and find a few things out good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): Do you live together and share paying bills?
If not, why were you snooping in his phone bill to begin with?
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reader, dave_richo +, writes (18 December 2006):
how do you know how old this other person is? looking through things is, in my opinion always risky and something which maybe compltely innocent may look so bad. If i was in your situation, and was comfortable that i was in a secure relationship then i would express my conerns. Maybe suggest that his bill is higher than usual, you was trying to see how it could be cut down and you noticed a new number coming up regually.
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