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writes:Grr this isn't fair! I'd been getting close to guy A about a month ago, we were good for a couple of weeks then i didnt hear from him again, its been another 2 weeks. So i gave up on him, now iv been great friends with guy B for a long time, always got on great, always enjoyed each others company n have the same witty sense of humor, so ended up gettin with him as an official item a few days ago. But guy B, he's like an amazing friend and it seems weird actually going out with him, and im proper missing guy A and can't stop thinking about him, thinkin all the what if's and all that, im confused.., i dunno how i really feel for guy B. I dunno if its because me thinkin about guy A all the time its effecting how i feel about guy B, who im going out with, i dunno what to do? Sorry if this is confusing but it is! Help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (1 July 2008):
 It is confusing, yes :P
I know this is going to be tricky but maybe you should talk to guy A and even just go out with him for a coffee or to the cinema. See how that goes.
Think about how you will be if you are always guy B's partner or how it would be being with guy A. But don't just brush Guy B off in the snap of a finger - you might regret it later if you discover buy A is in fact a total ass.
In the meantime just be happy with Guy B and figure what you like so much about him etc.
Good luck!!
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