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writes:Hi I am 29 female in need of bit of helpI am very keen on a guy whom has been my friend for so many years. he is so keen in me as someone whom give’s sex talk with. but is keen to have sex if we both get a chance when ever It is possible.. We have been talking online sex chat's for while now....but i think i started liking him bit more I know he does not feel that way towards me.. .. but he seem's to like all gal's the same way. but he does not have sex chat with other's so he says as we do. he would just need sex he is very clear on it. And just talks about sex to other girls a lot... but i don't mind that and I don’t care, but i would like him in my life.. i would like him so much i want to be with him.. I like being open relationship with him with out marriage or any sort of commitment. if he is ready for it.. The problem here is his friend she seem’s to come in between always saying things like discourage me being attracted to him she knows we been doing sex chat and she said she has no feelings for him but I feel why she has to order me around saying I can’t fall in love and that I will get hurt.. I have not being hurt as he has done nothing he is clear where he stand’s.. I have openly told my feelings to him. How do I explain to this other girl I am fine. How do I also encourage him to talk more about sex to me like he does to his friend that girl and other girl as I want him to treat me the same as he does with his friend and me. cause I like him so much.. Please help me some one thank youGal confused Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): Whoa there!
STOP.I am a guy.I like sex.Now the question here is why is he not getting it in real life.If you are normal or passably lovable you would be screwing your brains out in REAL LIFE.I have tried to have cybersex.It was boring,didn't do anything for me.Now REAL LIFE Sex is another thing.The heat,the passion...sorry where was I?
Whats wrong with this guy or you that you can only imagine it.Find a guy in REAL LIFE.Forget this online Don Juan.Even if you do end up having real life sex with him,its going to be lousy.After all he's only practiced it with the keyboard.Definitely looks like the Keyboard and mouse.
Kevin
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): I can't help you on this one, it sounds like the worst thing ever.
My only advice is get out of sex chats and go to therapy to find out why you have such a strong fear of committment and why you prefer sex chats to the real thing, why you seem to be incapable of a real life relationship and why you would subject yourself to an open relationship leaving yourself open to being hurt, harmed and well confused.
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