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I've always had the hots for girls... but I'm female!

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Question - (29 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2009)
A female Haiti age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So here I am, I always had the hots for girls. Never tough like it would be something serious...... but now I get a little bit more serious about it....... I get turned on by girls I think that are cute........ I am wondering is it because I have been abused that I feel more attracted to girls now.......... I am supposed to be god fearing... I am really scared to where this is going........... Am I a lesbian now.......... I am aÅ little scared about what people will say about me.... help

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntIts normal to feel closer to females after abuse, you aren't alone in this. You may be a lesbian, you may be bi sexual. Everyones different! Embrace the fact that you celebrate women! If you are scared of what people will say then don't tell them until you know how you feel about this properly! Do some research on the internet, go on a lesbian chat site and talk to people about your feelings on there! There is no shame in being close to girls, you don't have to tell people if you don't want to. Keep me updated! X

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