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anonymous
writes: What should I do, this amazing guy has asked me to his house on Friday to watch a DVD so we can spend some time together, we have known each other for a while and we have a lot of chemistry (I know that he want sex, throught a friend of a friend), the thing is I really like him and would sleep with him but it's the wrong time of the month, should I go or postpone until another time and if I did go what else could I do. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): If you really like this guy, you shouldn't even be considering having sex with him already.... you won't stand a chance for a second date if you give him sex right away! Keep your date and get to know him... then you can still have sex with him later....geez.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (1 September 2009):
You could say 'not tonight dear, I am not that sort of girl' or something like that! If you just want to use his body for wild passion, make an alternative time with him. However, if you are looking for a relationship go on a date - outside his house - and see what you have in common. If you still like him then you can choose to see him another time, and if he really likes you then he isn't going to be bothered about not having sex straight away. If he cools off at the prospect of dating outside his home or not having sex then run away, he is just after one thing.
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