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*HATandSWEET
writes:Hello againI have a question is it normal that when you are with a guy that if you keep having sex for awhile and he doesn't cum that his penis will go down? Does that mean he does not want you or attracted anymore. Or does that mean he could be tired or stressed with other thngs on his mind? sometimes the penis stays hard its not a problem and then some times i is limp. Should I worry that something is wrong with me or that i is just nature. He says its not me could it be that he drinks alot bfore we have sex or is he lying? Help me figure ou please.
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reader, Hrywnak  +, writes (28 December 2008):
precisely what tigerlily said, i've had that problem myself many times and it's got nothing to do with my girlfriend, i first experienced it the first couple of times we had sex but it was because of nerves, then after i conquered the nerves problem it might happen every once in a while, usually when i am drunk or just not in the mood.
arousal is hugely affected by the mind so if you're just not feeling it, it can go limp. if this happens with me usually my girlfriend gives me a blowjob or a wank which usually perks things up :) heat lube is good too
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (27 December 2008):
It's not you. If he's drinking a lot he will definitely have trouble keeping it up. He could be tired or stressed. Also when you say keep having sex for a while do you mean in a relationship over months or do you mean like doing it 3 times in a row in one night? It's likely he is just tired or stressed. I usually find if I'm with a guy and it goes limp if I don't make a big deal about it and just enjoy doing other stuff in bed with him and have fun and get him having fun... bam, back it comes hello there :-) Guys get performance anxiety too. Take the pressure off.
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