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It's been 10 years since we split, so why do I still have feelings for him?

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Question - (9 August 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2007)
A female Philippines age 51-59, anonymous writes:

why i still feel for my ex-husband? we been separete for more than 10 yaers now.few years back we became really a good friends.that we would go out with our 2 kids out of town. i know that he still loves. don't you think it's my fault cuz he did evrything to win me back. but i always said that he needs to move on. until that day he found out that i have new boyfriend.

i think he really got upset. i'm out of town that time. when i learn that he go back to his ex, the reason why we seperate. now that he has son to her(ex)

i really feel so sad. i have boyfriend right now. and we are happy but whenever i see my ex-husband and his new family. i realy regret why i let him go! don't you think he still loves me? cuz he just go back to his ex when he found out that i have new boyfriend....

i love my b'f but i love my ex-husband more....is there something i can do?so he can see how much i love him............

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007):

Its understandable that u still have feelings for ure ex husband. U must of had some really gd times wen u were 2 getha. I know u feel like its ure fault but u did wot u had 2 do bk thn. If u felt like the relationship wasnt workin then maybe it was for the best.

Don't let the past get u down. Wen u got a new bf it must have been hard for him 2 see u with some 1 else. But one time or another he new u was ganna find some1.

Now hes bk with his ex u feel upset thats he is with some 1 new 2. It must be very hard. But i guess he is trying to move on and get another relationship going. And member dont feel so bad u have a bf like u sed u are happy and thats a gd thing.

U sed u regret the discussion wen u saw ure ex husnad and his new family. well ure bound 2 feel like this but u shud be happy 4 him as he has moved on and seems happy wid his new family.

I fink now that u both have some 1 new its best 2 leave it as that. Its very gd u and ure husband r still friends. As long as u no that ure ex husband is now with some 1 else and he has a new family be happy 4 him and move on with ure life 2. U will always have that feeling about ure ex husband coz u spent time 2 getha and had a couple of kids. But try not 2 beat ureself up ova this. Gd luck with ure new bf

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