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writes:I am not sure whether this is a problem but feel that I need some manly advice on it. I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and when I met him it seemed to take him ages to ejaculate and often he would not do so for sometimes a week or so.. I thought it was just being in a new relationship and hoped things would improve but they never have and because of this I feel that our love life is suffering as I worry that we are going to be making love for hours before he reaches his climax by which time I have become sore and often bored, and sex has become infrequent (once a week) I have tried to discuss it with him to make sure that he is beingsatisfied and he says that he is happy and he has always been the same. He is 40 and I think before he met me he was not with many women.Is this a common problem and something I should be concerned about and is there anything I can do to help him and for us to get back on track more regularly with our love making.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Why not have a longer foreplay session before having intercourse. My partner went through a stage where he took ages to cum. And I would get bored and sore and then snap at him.
Maybe try some new positions where he gets more friction.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (23 June 2007):
 It's not as uncommon as you'd think. The most important thing is for you to understand that it's not your fault and not to blame yourself for it.
Here is a good article about it, I suggest you read it and also consider getting him to read it. If it is causing significant problems then the two of you might want to follow some of the steps they suggest:
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/ejaculatoryincompetence.htm
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