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It hurts to be with her..it hurts to be without her!

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Question - (10 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ndrew loves hali writes:

hi im 15 and my girlfriend well ex now got into a fight about her and her ex (he moved away but is comin back next year)

okay heres the story she always talks to him which yeah im fine with

but she calls him when shes with me and they say sweet things to each other and they say " i love you" and "were meant to be" and im like wtf whayt do you think the point of the EX is?

and he cheated on her with her bestfriend and i was there for her and yet she still likes him after 3 years they broke up and me and her have been together for 2 years.

so i told her how i felt she said okay. she didnt really seem to care cause she knows that no matter what she does ill stay with her and i usually do but i dont think i can anymore.

it hurts to be with her but it hurts without her too. what should i do??

she said she doesnt care what we do cause its pointless. i really love this girl but she said she doesnt love or care about me anymore cause thats pointless too.

any ideas???

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (10 March 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt you deserve much better bro!!..you sound like a gudd guy...follow your own path, she's taking you for granted...distance yourself way from her

she'll soon realize what she's missing!!!

gudd luck

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A male reader, SlackersACE1  United States +, writes (10 March 2009):

Bruddah, that is rough stuff there. It's difficult for me to say this, but you might want to take a little time away from her. Clear your head, play some b-ball and videogames with the boys (Even if you guys suck, its a great distraction). Work on a hobby. After a few days see how you feel. If she's still apathetic, pack it in and call it a day. Worst case scenario, you stayed faithful, maturly handled the situation, and didn't start swinging fists. And while your girl may or may not admire that, I swear there are lots of happenin girls out there that do and they're lookin for you man. Stay cool and think smart, good luck bro.

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