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writes: Hello,After a nasty break-up from my ex i decieded to move away from that particular group of friends. It has been agaes since i last since them and him, and i got on with my life fine, although the odd time i did think about about him.Soon enough i got a call from him and we caught up on lost time, we had a great time just chatting and laughing.Anyway last night i was invited to a party, It was my ex's friends, and i know him pretty well, i used to hang around with him back in "the old days!"It was brillant, i mingled with everybody and had a great time. My ex were talking for most of the night and when everybody (finally!) went to sleep we were downstairs talking. So we went upstairs to find a place to settle down and all the beds were taken and the floor except for a tiny place.It was rather cold and we laid down in this place and turned our backs on eachother, It wasnt uncomfortable, i just didnt want to do anything stupid. As it got later we talked and talked and suddenly he turned around and kissed me!However, he told me what was about to happen meant nothing more then friends.He is not the using type, but last night got to me. We were completely sober.We did it right there and then and to tell you the truth i didnt want it to end.As we were falling asleep, he wrapped his arms around me and held me all night long. It was the most loving thing i had ever felt in a long time.When we awoke in the morning and cuddled and kissed eachother-just like old times. I felt amazing and so loved.I want to get back with him, although i dont want to admit it to him. Is there anyway i can get him to admit what he feels for me, without me having to do so first.I know he says "It means nothing more then friends," but the way he held me all night, and offered his arm as a pillow to me, and used his coat as a blanket over me and braved the cold on his own, it made me feel dead special.Is there something there, or should i forget it? How do i get him to reveal his feelings for me?Thank you in advance and id really appreciate as many comments as possible, no matter how small!
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reader, Jack Bauer's lover +, writes (13 April 2006):
Jack Bauer's lover is verified as being by the original poster of the question In an update to this question,
I haven't stopped thinking about my ex, and i really miss him.
It's not that i want to get back with him, (Well i dont know my feelings are all over the place at the mo!)
I just want him to reveal how he is feeling towards me, so that way i can tell what is going through his head.
Is there anyway i can do this, Without having to drug him :) (joke!)
I just cant get him to open up properly, and i realy want to find out these things. My ex is not a user, he just doesnt know what he wants, its not that i'm sticking upfor him, i'm just trying to provide you with a bit of background knowlegde.
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reader, shania  +, writes (10 April 2006):
 What a charming young man....not only did he sleep with you he also said that it meant nothing and that you were no more then friends.So in his eyes....friends have sex with each other? I dont think so.I take it,he ended the relationship,and then took full advantage of you when he got the chance.Whether he held you tight all night or put his coat over you,it doesn't mean a thing....because if it did,he would be with you right now,asking you to be his girlfriend again.....but he hasn't.I think you should forget your ex and move on to pastures new....otherwise you will be waiting forever for him.
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