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anonymous
writes:I am confused about whether I am in a frienship or the beggining of a relationship as I have lost confidence and self- esteem . I am divorced with three children after my husband walked out on us. I have known a this guy as a friend for three years and he is married. Since my divorce was " official" he gave me a mobile phone as a gift and has texted me every day ,also telephoned from work but rarely met face to face . He ....he says he fancies me , but he wants to be good friends . I am unsure about what he wants as I would not consider a sexual relationship if the guy is married . I am confused because I like the guy ...
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (12 August 2009):
 You say your confidence and self-esteem are in the toilet right now...if you allow this married man into your life you will be flushing that toilet. Don't go there.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 Men always tell women they want to be friends and then 'whoops' they end up in bed together after going out for a friendly drink or something. I think most of them can't even be honest with themselves and their true motives when they strike up these so called "friendships" with a vulnerable single gal. If you don't want to feel used and end up supersized hurt, you should not see this guy anymore and return the phone. This has all the signs of a man who has the intention of cheating on his wife at your expense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): Hey, do yourself a favor and let this guy go because you know he's taken and will cause you heart trouble. If you dwell you'll smell. He didn't give you a phone so you could chat up OTHER guys. He fancies you. He wants you and is willing to lie in wait until his trap is sprung.
KEEP CLEAR OF FALLING FOR THIS ROMEO. Return his phone and tell him you don't want to play.
You're YOUNG. You can get any other guy that is single and available.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): STOP EVEN BEFORE YOU START.
YOU know what it feels like to have a man walk out of your and your kids life, so please do not put this mans wife through similar turmoil. also this emotional affair with this MM has to stop. for your won sanity please steer clear of this man.
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