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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:When me and my partner have sex, it's amazing. Only, I haven't yet reached an orgasm. When we're mid-action, I sometimes have to tell him to stop, just because it's TOO intense, and feels TOO good - it's weird. Is this the build up to an orgasm that I'm preventing?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 Remember that an orgasm (both men and women) is an intense sexual release of tension. For both, there is a build-up followed by a feeling of "letting go" - much like submission. And yes, even the approach to orgasm typically feels good, hopefully VERY good. So . . . what you describe may indeed be a build up to orgasm and you may be resisting the "point of inevitability" which may seem uncomfortable because it is similar to loss of control. My suggestion would be to try a bit more foreplay under very comfortable conditions, relax and to allow the sensations you feel to go ahead and overwhelm you. If too nervous or apprehensive, it is a difficult thing to reach.
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