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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Help i'm really confused. My man was already to move in with me and was committed to me but now he says he needs space to sort some things out. He has a few problems. I have had thus experience in the past where man have shut me out to sort their problems out, sometimes for weeks. Is this normal or is there something that makes me unapproachable? He says he still loves me but just needs some time and he cant make any promises. I feel so hurt and let down, we still talk every day and see each other at work and one day a week outside but i'm starting to think he just keeping in contact as not to hurt me but if that were the case why does he say he loves me and he misses me? i'm so confused
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reader, scared to love  +, writes (17 March 2009):
I am in the same type of situation. We have been together for 14yrs, have a son and a home. Never pressured him about marriage especially since I was trying to finish up my schooling. Now all of a sudden he wants to leave says he"needs to figure things out and get himself together" He says we don't have anything in common anymore. I am hurt so hurt. So I know exactly how you feel. Just try to keep positive and focus on you. I know it's easier said than done. But take care of you. Good luck..hope it all works out. Give him time, but focus on you.
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