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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:OK, this guy is a friend of mine. A long distance one. I met him in a deal from my office. Turned out we became keeping in touch as friends he told me he's married so we became friends since day one. He's military so we never lost touch out of what things were happening, but I never knew his wife.He has said before he enjoys our friendship and emailing and that it's really great we keep in touch. Well, he was on a 4 month duty so we email as well AS FRIENDS. Before he head for home I did wrote asking him if he was longing to get back. He said he just took things day-by-day.I recalled he saying he was good, yet away from home and that he was going to take some time off. so I wish a nice trip home. He wrote me yesterday checking in on me and saying Hi, hoping I'm OK. I asked how are things home and didn't said a word.I don't know, but as a girl I kinda feel some thing's going on with him, maybe not, who knows. What should I do as to know if he's heading for trouble. My fear is to blew something like his family life . If he wants to split with his wife, I don't want to be the cause for it. Is it worth to cut off or just play it cool and act as the friend I am?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (30 October 2008):
 In my opinion, based on your posting, you are setting yourself up for great disappointment if you continue to entertain this relationship beyond a casual friendship and nothing more.
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