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Is this guy genuine?

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Question - (25 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hiya well im 18 and i got to know a guy via the internet.he was on my msn contact list for months but i never talked to him just hi and bye.

then last saturday we started talking and i said we could just be mates. Ever since he calls me every day for about 3/4 hours.

now this is where the quesiton is he genuine or not comes in..we've told eachother alot about family etc and he said to me if i was 20+ he would have propsed to me..then the other day asked me to be his wife and we'll get married in2 years after get to know each other ( i said 3 cuz want to finsh uni)and he was like ok. dont knwo why but i said love you.to him when puttin phone down ever since hes saying love u back

i said why are we talking abut marriage when really only spoken in depth for a week..he goes because feels like we've known eachother for 2o years and some times it can only take a minute to understand a person.

he is honest.tells me how his boss trys it on with him and how he had 2 fuck buddys after a messey relationship but has stopped ever since talkin 2 me.

but he turns his phone off after 7pm until bk at work.i asked why.he said cuz he goes home eats plays on the xbox then wakes up at 5am..

what do you think?? p.s i told him i want 2 stay virgin until marry and he's cool saying ok won't do it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

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thanks for the reply..well he's had to go abroad but he sitll rings me and talks to me. we had a heart to ehart and i said just want to take it slow see how things go etc don't want to get hurt and its cool :) thanks xx

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntif you havent met him then you cant trust him? and its way too early tostart speaking of marriage. you need to go into this situation responsibly and skeptical of everything, do not trust him until you know him! he could be a murderer, a rapist, he could have a wife and three kids! yes he could be genuine but until you know for sure, never meet him alone, take someone with you! dont go to his house or let him know where you live! dont give out any personal details... just be smart about this. x

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