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female
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30-35,
*upcakesss
writes:hello there...!there was this eye candy in my class and we didnt speak at all for the entire semester...however we managed to talk at a party which was held to commemorate the end of the semester. so during the party, both of us were pretty tipsy from the drinks and we talked a lot and became closer, even saying that we should hang out during the vacation...he said he was interested in me but was too shy to approach me...and so one thing lead to another and we made out... we were together from the party till the next day afternoon and he gave me a goodbye kiss before we separated... however, i kinda felt guilty after the makeout session as i think he would see me as being an easy girl who just make out with anyone when im drunk but i dont...actually i think he really think that im a loose person since he asked if i did that often! but i was feeling kinda hurt and stung to defend myself at that time..i tried to contact him in a bid to 'explain things' to him but he said he wasnt free. and i attempted to ask him out again using that 'hey we said we would hang out toge during the vacation' excuse but he told me that he was broke and had to entertain some of his friends who came from overseas. instead he suggested that we were to hang out the next time when he has the $$$... maaaaaaaan... thats a pretty lame excuse, isnt it?is this an obvious signal that hes not into me and that i should just move on? i know that usually something serious cant evolve from a drunk makeout and i kinda regret it cause of that... but at the same time, i dont know why i cant help but to keep thinking about it?can anyone please enlighten meeee? :( thanks in advance... sorry for the long post. .
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): Sorry, doesn't seem like he's that interested. I mean if he wants to contact you, fine he'll contact you. But don't have any expectations and move on and live your life and meet other guys.
And I don't think you did anything wrong. Don't worry about the "loose girl" thing, he said he was intereted and what's wrong with making out with someone you're interested in/like?
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reader, batman5  +, writes (26 June 2010):
Obviously you feel like you would want to do it over because you don't want him to think of you as easy but you came on to him too strong that night and well that's just what he's going to think. I suggest moving on because then he's going to think you're clingy or wait and see if he comes around. You don't have to prove yourself to anyone ;)
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