A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I'm 17 and I haven't had a boyfriend, I've masturbated thinking about guys I like and although it gives me a war happy feeling, it doesn't do much for me sexually.I have fooled around with guys at parties (I've never had sex but done enough to get an orgasm) I'm not proud of what I do with them because there's no real connection but if I masturbate about them I cum loads.ANYWAY... what I'm trying to ask, is there something wrong with me that I'm ony turned on by sleazey guys, even if they're kinda ugly and overweight?
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reader, Ewan Nicholson +, writes (11 November 2009):
Well firstly it sound like nothing is wrong with you per say. The fact you feel some kind of shame regarding your sexuality is more of an issue then actually things you talking about .Discovering who we are is process, a process emotionally ,a process mentally and a process sexually. You now just at the start of the process and it best to approach it without too much moral judgment bur rather keep an openness to discovering more about yourself .I am sure overtime you find a balance and r-ship that is right for you. good luckEwan Nicholson
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