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writes:My question is this. How can i get the love of my life to stay with me even if she says she is in love with her first love and wants to leave? Also is there any hope for us? We have been together for almost 20 years and she says she does love me and care about me alot. thank you for any advice you can give me because i am heart broken. Reply to this Question
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reader, BITCH72 +, writes (13 October 2007):
BITCH72 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust wanted to say thank you for answering my questions. I still have so much to talk about though, i just don't know where to begin.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (13 October 2007):
 hi i am sorry that you are in this position after 20 year, and i can understand the hart break you are suffering,i am sorry to say that this person is not worthy to have you as a partner,coming up with such a lame excuse after such a long period of time is unforgivable, i am afraid she does not care or love you or why would she be hurting you in this way, the best thing for you to do is is tel her how much pain you are in , then slam the door in her face, then go out and find some one who you would be proud to be with and would treat you with the respect and love that you deserve, i also believe that when a person does what she has done, she has made her mind up that there is no future for you both being together, and after the statement she has made, why would you want to be with her, pull your self up, keep smiling,there are loads of people out there waiting to meet you. good luck
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reader, samohir  +, writes (13 October 2007):
 Wow, after 20 years she simply concluded that is in love with her previous Love!!!What a tolerant woman!!
Talk to her would be my advice,see if she really has concluded that is in love with her first one, or is just excuse.. and if she makes a decision like that, just let her go, unfortunately dont think you can change that...
But would advice first to talk with her,and see her motifs for leaving you.If there are other,but being in love, depending of the situation may find a solution.
Best of Luck
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