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writes: Im 15 and i met this girl in a internet chat room and she lives in chester but im scared we r gonna break up because of the distance what can i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2006): i am in da same suation bt love shouldnt be on disatace bt there gonna have 2 be a lot of trust betwen u 2 go 4 it
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 How far apart are you? Sometimes absense makes the heart grow fonder. Write letters to her, talk to her over the internet. Don't reject her. Let her know she's still speical and if it's truly meant to be, it'll last. But do bear in mind you are only 15. You have the rest of your life ahead of you. Keep in touch with her, maybe organise a visit. My best friend lives near Chester and I live 4 hours away from her but we still organise visits as frequently as we can. Life does move on. Let things progress in their own time
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2006): Well anything is possible. I hate to break it to you, but the less mature you are (not to do with age generally), the more likely it is for you two to split. It also depends on what your relationship is based on. If it's generic words like, "I wish I can see you, cuz I can't stop thinking of you" but have no actual substance, then blah. However, if you've been 'together' for a long time, you know her desires, her thoughts, her needs, and vice versa, and say you send her stuff, and she sends you stuff, and she gets mad at you when she comes back from Thailand, and you don't call her... Oops...
Well, you know what I mean? Obviously, you're worried. So what can you do? Just keep doing what you do, UNTIL you two meet. WHEN you meet, that is WHEN the REAL test begins. Chatting is easy. It's also deceiving, UNTIL you meet that person, and see how they are in front of you. Mhm...
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reader, eï? Sophie eï? +, writes (13 April 2006):
 HiWell distance relationships can be tricky,some dont work out because of the time away from eachother. Oviously things won't go down well if the contact isn't a great deal. As long as you speak too each other fairly frequently, text, msn, emailing and on the phone, also plan when your going to see each other like in holidays and weekends, and whenever your free and things should workout fine, just aslong as you keep the contact.Hope everything turns out ok x
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reader, ..x..Lauren..x.. +, writes (12 April 2006):
 Well you havent said if youve met this girl in real life before.... either way the answer is neaf enough the same.. iv been in your situation and i was totally devoted to this lad.. i met him and now it jsut doesnt work so ive moved on. Im not saying you should give up completely but maybe leave it til you can drive or something. If you havent met her she may not be what she looks like... webcam hides a lot... well i hope i have helped somehow, update me by leaving a message if possible about what you decide. ..x..Lauren..x..
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