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writes:Hi,I have been with my girl for about 5 years now. Our relationship in the beginning was red-hot passion...we both couldn't keep our hands off one another..now, she isn't so interested in sex. She went away for a business trip last weekend, and came back on sunday. I stayed the night, and tried to get her to "turn on" but she said she had to get up early (true) and that we could play, but not too much. hint:fellatio. Okay,so she doesn't seem to care about sex that much...sheis 26, and I know she has healthy hormones...what gives? I fully trust her and know she is a good girl, so I'm not worried about "another guy" for sure. But what is it? Does she see me as a friend? not her sexy lover? is it a bad sign? we don't live together, we see each other 3x a week, and now, we are fully intimate 1 or 2x a week...help!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, lexie +, writes (13 March 2007):
well seems like she needs a little space you know... i would just give her time.. hey try giving her something thoughtful like maby flowers to be sittin on the table when she gets home or something u know something that she would like but in the meantime just give her a little space..... Love, Lexie
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): 1 or 2xs a week?! Lucky you! My husband could go a whole month if i don't ask for it. After 5yrs i do see him like my bestfriend. I think im being punished by a god or something for having a great sex life before marriage =( Boo hoo to me - Good luck w/your girl.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (12 March 2007):
 Twice a week is average. It's only natural that after five years you're not as hot for each other as you once were. It doesn't mean she doesn't fancy you anymore or that she's seeing someone else, just that you need to do something to keep the spark alive. Have u ever acted out each other's fantasies or something similar? It might be just the spark you need.
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